How to go from Survive to THRIVE.

A few nights ago I went to bed panicked. The day had been crazy— full of taking care of kids, trying to get some work done in-between screams and yells for “MOM,” making dinner, and work calls in the evening. I hadn’t even had a chance to have a conversation with my husband, and it was 11pm. Then the thought came. ⠀ “We are in survival mode.” ⠀ It came instantaneously. It’s definitely not the first time I’ve told myself we were in survival mode (and it won’t be the last.) And

Was I supposed to be a mom?

I used to think there was something wrong with me. I hated doing dishes and laundry, day in and day out. Dealing with whining kids who seemed to do nothing but fight and complain all the live long day. I struggled connecting with my kids, and after what seemed like the 10th parenting book I read in an attempt to “get better at momming,” I came to truly believe that the key to my problems was the relationship I had with them. I had been taught my whole life that family relatio